After starting a conversation about patrons who spend a small fortune on their meals yet fail to tip the wait staff, a TikTok user has taken a lot of heat online.
The significance of tipping is emphasized in the video, which has received over 10,000 views.
These days, arguments on American tipping practices are common on social media.
Although it is entirely discretionary, the practice of tipping has recently generated some controversy due to the widespread dissatisfaction with the conventional wisdom that states a tip of 15-20% is appropriate and that anything below 20% is considered insufficient.
A restaurant worker named Lillie, who goes by the TikTok handle @mylasoasis_, recently made a controversial statement in a video that has since been removed. It was her opinion that people shouldn’t dine out at restaurants if they can’t afford to tip their servers.
In the United States, the TikToker joins the continuing discussion about the compensation of servers. Lillie explains that she and the other roughly 1.5 million waiters in the country don’t live in a world where their salaries are argued for differently.
“Complain and demand a higher wage from my employer all you want; however, you must understand that this is America, and that is not the reality, is it?” She elaborates. The restaurant where I work pays me $3.63 per hour. The majority of my revenue comes from tips.
Lillie elaborates by saying that restaurants purposefully keep their menu pricing cheap so that customers can leave gratuities. The reason the food is priced lesser, she explains, is because a gratuity is expected. “Dining out isn’t worth it if you can’t even afford to tip the wait staff.”
She likens it to finding a nanny. “A nanny is no different. She argues that people don’t deserve nannies if they can’t afford to pay them full salary. As a final statement, Lillie says that “you literally don’t deserve to dine out” if you can’t tip, and she suggests that people get takeout or go to fast food joints instead. Holy cow!
Along these lines: “And to anyone who says we should be getting paid a higher hourly… ” Lillie continues to vent her fury in the video’s caption. Is that all correct? We aren’t, though. You will have a far worse dining experience if you do not tip.
Many viewers of Lillie’s video felt compelled to share their thoughts in the comments area. Though they always leave a gratuity when eating out, one diner disagreed with Lillie’s delivery of the message.
“I usually leave a tip, but this person’s sense of entitlement is through the roof. Get a job that doesn’t demand you to be on your feet all the time and pays you good money per hour,” they remarked.
Someone else voiced agreement, saying that if the salary is inadequate, one should look for a different position. Take a different employment if you’re not able to support yourself with what you’re earning. “This is laughable,” they exclaimed.
There were, of course, some users who agreed with Lillie. The following is an account of an individual’s personal experience: “LITERALLY… My hourly wage is $2.13, and we are not even paid. With the cry “SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!” another person joined the conversation.
“Go off, girl,” proposed one user. If not tipping is a sign that you don’t think your company pays fair wages, then you should patronize establishments that do.
In response to Lillie’s remark that a 20% tip is required regardless of service quality, another commenter voiced their disagreement and described their dedication to tipping. Service is the basis for my tip, they stated. “Unless the service was really terrible, I always leave a 20% tip or more.”
